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Emotional Healing

Healing handsHello my fellow readers! I haven’t been making daily posts because I’ve been so busy, but one thing I’d like to talk about is something we all can relate to. Some of us relate to this subject on different levels, but we’ve all felt emotional pain.

Healing can be so painful sometimes. Healing physically or emotionally can take a while. It seems that healing emotionally can take longer than physical healing. A lot of people ignore their emotional wounds. How do we heal emotionally? How long does it take to heal from our emotional wounds? Do we ever fully heal from our past hurts and pains? Read more »

What do dreams mean?

Meanings of dreams

What’s the difference between someone who is insane and someone who is sane? A psychologist told me the only difference between these two people is that the one who is sane can dream and reaches the R.E.M. state during sleep time. The other person who is insane cannot dream. Dreams are very intriguing, but we don’t always know what they mean.

Dreams are also very powerful. They can cause someone to wake up in bad mood, good mood, and sometimes people wake up feeling inspired by their dreams. I love it when I dream. I usually get excited and most of the time I am inspired by my own dreams. I tell other people about my dreams and sometimes they look at me like I’m crazy. I look at my dream and think how inspiring or I’ll ponder on it for a while wondering what the meaning is behind it.

Sometimes our dreams have no real meaning in the sense that our minds are just releasing any built up emotions. We may be completely unaware of our emotions that are taking place, but our subconscious mind knows and therefore we dream those crazy dreams that make no sense to us. Whenever I dream things that make no sense, I go to a dream directory and look up different meanings for instance, if I dream that I was pregnant in a dream, I will go to the dream directory and look up pregnancy. I usually can grasp what the meanings of my dreams are after I go to the dream directory. Read more »

Friendships

Friendships
Sometimes I think people take friendships for granted. You may not realize who your true friends are until you fall on hard times. Maybe the people you thought were your friends disappear during those hard times. Do you think a lot of people who try to become your friend have their own selfish agenda? Maybe you have done or experienced all of the above and don’t realize it.

I’m sure along the way in my life’s journey I have had friendships that I’ve shown little appreciation for. I know some people in my past took my friendship for granted, but how do you know? I think betrayal is one way people might realize they’ve been taken for granted. Betrayal will hurt someone to the very core and boy does it suck. Betrayal can make you fall on hard times emotionally and then who do you turn to? Read more »

Lesbian Easter Laughter

Hey everyone, it’s Easter Sunday and I’m not in a serious mood today, so I thought I might put a couple of funny pictures for you to look at. I actually received these pictures in an e-mail and thought I would share some Easter laughter with you. Below are the pictures I found funny.
Easter egg laughsEaster bunny laughs
easter slipper laugh

Lindsay Lohan’s Lesbian tug of war

Lindsay Lohan’s love triangleWhat? Lindsay Lohan is a lesbian? I read in Star magazine that Lindsay Lohan is in a tug of war between two ladies. I personally had no idea Lindsay Lohan swung that way! I was taken back when I was reading the article on Lindsay Lohan.

The article says that she is caught between two women. One of which is Samantha Ronson, who is a D.J. and the other girls name is Courtenay Semel, who is the daughter of Yahoo, Chairman Terry Semel and former star of the E! Supposedly Lindsay Lohan claims to love Samantha and Courtenay. What a dilemma Lindsay Lohan must be in!

Courtenay and Lindsay Lohan lived together in a three-bedroom Hollywood Hills home, but had a falling out that sent Courtenay packing. Courtenay claims to still love Lindsay Lohan and will do anything to get her back. Lindsay keeps in close contact with Sam and has written her letters while she was in rehab.

Most of Lindsay Lohans letter were on myspace, but too explicit for Star magazine to print out. Lindsay wrote Sam saying, “I want to marry you and have children with you. I need you to live”! Sam claims to be 100 percent in love with Lindsay Lohan. This girl must be feeling torn in this lesbian love triangle! Who will Lindsay choose?

Femme in the lesbian world

femme lips
Being a Femme in the lesbian world can be difficult sometimes because we always seem to be left out of the loop for some reason. Femme’s are also the type of lesbians men usually fantasize about when they think of two girls together. One would think that if you are a femme in the lesbian community, then you would have women lined up to date you, but that isn’t the case.

Lesbians automatically assume that if there is a really feminine girl at a gay club, then she must be hanging out with the gay boys. Why do all the gay boys get the hot chicks hanging out with them? You lesbians need to be more aggressive! If you approach a hot looking chick and she turns out to be straight, then just pass it off as casual conversation.

I’m beginning to think lesbians are intimidated by the femme’s. If some of you lesbians out there are attracted to femme’s, but are intimidated by them at the same time, then how do you expect to find a mate? If I had the same amount of women approach me as the men did, then I would have been dating women a long time ago. I would have started dating women in my teenage years! Read more »

Fear and the Bible

lightning bolt simulating fear

I would like to talk about an emotion that everyone has felt before. This emotion usually brings about worry, anger, and paranoia. Sometimes this emotion keeps a person in check from doing the wrong thing. The emotion I am talking about is fear.

We know what fear is, but what’s the opposite of fear? I looked up the antonym of fear and came up with bravery, courage, assurance, and fearlessness. I think a lot of people allow fear to control their lives to some degree.

Fear encompasses many topics that I’d like to talk about, but I’m going to narrow it down to a couple of points I am trying to get across. People let fear keep them from being truly happy in life. I want to clarify something before I go any further. If what makes you happy consists of harming or killing anything, then I am totally against it. God’s teachings in the New Testament teach against harming or killing anything.

Now back to fear, Read more »

Youtube love song by Leona Lewis

I thought I might break up this page a bit with something a little entertaining because my other post was a little on the serious side. We have all been in love at one point, so I thought I would put something up everyone could relate to.

Love songs are so popular with weddings and people are always looking for new love songs, so I thought I would let you know I found one. I think this song is fairly new. When I heard it, I fell in love with it!

The song is called “bleeding love” by Leona Lewis. Not only is the song beautiful, she is beautiful herself. I think one of Leona Lewis’s best features in this video is her eyes. Did I mention Leona Lewis’s voice is beautiful?

Many people have a signature love song that reminds them of someone they were with in the past or maybe you already have a signature love song with the person you are currently with. Maybe you just met your “special” someone. If you are in love with someone or have ever been in love, then I’m sure you will enjoy this song just as much as I did. I hope you enjoy the youtube video!


Homosexuality and the Bible

Homosexuality and the bibleIf you know homosexuality is wrong, then why do you do it? I was asked that question today and I responded by saying, “the bible is up for interpretation”. The Christian society has portrayed homosexuality as a sin and for some reason the sin of homosexuality is ranked higher than those sins listed on the Ten Commandments. Why is that?

Is it because the bible says it’s an abomination? Ok, but it is also an abomination to eat shell fish, so how come it’s ok for people to eat shrimp and lobster? People will argue back and forth on this topic and I could go on forever talking about this subject, but I’m not here to persuade anyone to be gay just like no one can persuade me into thinking that I’m straight. God gave us some very basic rules and they are the Ten Commandments. I really feel that if you follow the Ten Commandments, then you are on your way to a prosperous and fruitful life.

I personally feel that society has taken the bible and used it as a way to manipulate people. I’m not saying ALL Christians use the bible as a tool in manipulating people, but a lot of them do. Didn’t society deny black people rights because of something they interpreted out of the bible? I’m not sure what the exact verses were that Christians used, but society also denied women equal rights because of the things the bible said. How about interracial marriage? Read more »

Why did God destroy Sodom and Gomorrah?

Sodom and Gomorrah

There is one story in the bible that Christians use against gays and that is the story or Sodom and Gomorrah. I’ll inform those of you who are not aware of the common interpretation.

The story of Sodom and Gomorrah condemn homosexuality because of the word sodomite, which refers to someone who engages in anal sex, so the sin of Sodom has to do with homogenital acts. Supposedly God punished the citizens of Sodom, the sodomites, for homogenital activity, so because of this activity God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.

The bible is always up for interpretation, so if God didn’t destroy Sodom and Gomorrah because of homosexual acts, then why did God destroy Sodom and Gomorrah? The other interpretation I’ve read is that God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of inhospitality. Read more »